Christmas 2010

We have had a wonderful Christmas. And, it wasn’t really in the big “shiny” moments that I treasured the holiday. It was in the small ones.

It was in the times when I sat and listened to Kendyll tell Abby Kate about Christmas when she was three. Or, when I looked over to see Carlie hugging her grandparents just because she wanted to cuddle. Or, seeing the JOY in Abby Kate’s eyes as she snuck through the store with her sister’s secret Christmas present: the tiny dolls they had found, but never expected their three year old sister to buy for them. Or listening to the girls say the Christmas story from Luke, their memory work from December.

It was when “My Jesus I Love Thee” came on the radio, and brought tears to my eyes in a way it never had before, even though it’s always been one of my favorite songs ever written. I had never thought about it in the context of Christmas…My Jesus I love thee, I know thou art mine…My Gracious Redeemer, my Savior art thou. If ever I loved thee, my Jesus ‘tis now.

Christmas morning was such a sweet one for us, too.

It was around 6:30 when Kendyll came in and woke us up. “Abby Kate is burning up, Mommy, and she had a nightmare!” Both of us stumble out of bed, after only a few hours of sleep, and head upstairs to see what “burning up” means to Kendyll. She was right. Abby Kate had a very high fever and was laying in her floor.

While Mark went to get her Motrin, I laid down with her, and her big sisters joined me. For twenty minutes or so, our whole family laid in the floor laughing and talking and stroking Abby Kate’s hair.

This may sound strange, but I just savored the sweetness of my girls. They weren’t scrambling downstairs to see what Santa brought, although I'm sure it was on their minds! They weren’t begging to get started on opening gifts, although I’m sure they had counted them a few times already.

They were just content to lay and snuggle and laugh with their baby sister, while we waited for her medicine to kick in so she could enjoy some Christmas fun.

I love this picture...even Annie checked on Abby Kate, as she always does when one of the kids is sick.

As we headed downstairs a few minutes later, I waited for the questions.

This year, Santa surprised these girls with a scavenger hunt for their gift. So, the only thing “on display” when they walked in the living room was this:

A bowl of popcorn and four root beers.

I thought for sure we would hear “That’s all?"

But, do you know what they did? They first made sure Santa ate his cookies and the reindeer ate their carrots, and were so excited to see that everything was sufficiently consumed.

Then, they just sat and ate the popcorn.

Mark and I were both thinking “Um…what? They thought they got popcorn from Santa and they’re OKAY with that?”

This was a lesson for me, I tell you. They were totally content with a stocking full of little things (those were also laying next to the bowl) and some popcorn. We Americans over-give to our kids so much. And, I realized it once again in that moment.

I drew their attention to the rolled up paper, tied on to the popcorn bowl, and then the fun began!

They hunted for clue after clue, and began to try and solve the mystery. Their first clue was popcorn and root beer, the next was laptrays hidden in the backyard,

followed by new classic movies, and then headphones.

Their last clue told them to go to the front yard, and they would find their big gift.

After looking all over the yard (it was freezing!!), I said “Oh girls! Look at the car!” The inside of the van was covered in silver tinsel, and as they crawled inside, Carlie was the first to discover it: A DVD player in our van!!

After years of fighting the concept of technology in the car, I am actually very glad Santa decided to send us this surprise. He was smart to leave some guidelines for watching…including not watching it too much, and always choosing things that are good for our hearts and minds. And, he even gave them videos for Math and Nature Studies for school! :)

But, let me tell you, that the next couple of days were quite amazing trips in the car. I’ve never experienced a quieter ride in my life. And, Mark and I would arrive at our destination in GOOD moods, having had real conversation all the way there! It was GREAT. And, if you have ever ridden in the Jacobs car, and experienced the loud volume of these three sillies, you understand how heavenly this really was. :)

So, I have to admit it: I’m liking it.

Now, it doesn’t mean that there won’t be limits on this little sucker. But, it has been one of the girls’ favorite presents ever. And, to think. They would have been thrilled to have some Jiffy Pop. Good to know.

Another one of my favorite moments every year is watching the girls open the present that their sister buys them. This is a BIG deal, and they get so excited to be “the giver”. They each picked out the perfect things for their sisters this year, and many, many squeals and hugs were given.

This Mommy heart loves to watch the love. It’s my favorite moment and another great time when we slow down to celebrate each other.

Celebrating was fun all week long, actually. Such sweet gifts were given, including thoughtful donations to His Chase and other charities on our behalf. My mom gave me a new windchime for Chase's Corner with his life verse engraved. Aunt Carol made His Chase shirts for the whole family! And, Katers got her special baby quilt from Aunt Carol too.

My grandparents gave Kendyll a jewelry box of Lil' Mama's and she truly treasures it so much. Lil' Mama is so special to all of us, so this meant so much to my big girl.

And, we got the coolest new collectible ornaments from Aunt Jodi. It will be great to see the collection grow over the years.

Then, of course, there were many fun gifts they were excited to see...fun arts and crafts, which is a constant source of entertainment in our house. A bow and arrow for Kendyll (so she can really be Susan from Narnia).

Christmas PJ's for the cousins...

Pillow pets! (That have been used every single day since Christmas!).

Hilarious singing dolls from Uncle Chris. (one of my favorite pictures--and gifts--this year!)

And, special traditions were continued the whole week of Christmas.

Chocolate fountain night with Grandma and Pops…with Japanese hibachi for dinner!

Look at these amazed faces at our awesome chef...

And, the faces of amazement continued when Popsy decided to dip a banana pepper in the chocolate this year. Silly Popsy.

The rest of us dipped yummier things, like marshmallows and bananas and cookies...and fingers. Yum.

We had a fun day of eating and visiting and of course, searching, with our wrapping paper scavenger hunt at Grandad and Grankays…SO many fun treasures and they love searching for their paper under the tree! It was the talk for hours before we got there, as they guessed what their paper would be this year. :)

And Christmas Eve morning at Gammy and Papa Ron's, after an evening of s'mores and a caroling hayride to see the lights in Mineola.

And, it's even cuter when cousins match on Christmas. Fun shirts from Aunt Cassie for the whole cousin gang were one of MY favorite gifts! :)

With time off from work and school, we were also able to do some things we don’t always have time to do with our aunts and uncles! We had "trade days", where the cousins spent the night at each other's houses while the grown-ups got shopping done. It was fun for all!

We also went to ICE together to see some Charlie Brown fun.

It is always an adventure with the big gang, and I LOVE seeing the cousin-love they all share.

We also got to take a trip to the symphony with our big girls and Uncle Chris, and Pops and Grandma!

It was one of my favorite Christmas activities this year, and it was an amazing performance! It was also very fun to hear the girls identify the instruments they have been learning about this semester. Even Abby Kate said “I see the violin Mommy. And, there’s the fute (flute)!”

Since I am actually finishing this post a month after Christmas, I've probably forgotten some things. That's what happens when you leave two days after Christmas for a two-week trip to Africa. Some things get lost in the shuffle. :)

But, it was a wonderful holiday, as it always is with our sweet family. We look forward with great anticipation to 2011, and all the adventures that await us. Thank you, Lord, for your faithfulness and lavish blessings of 2010. We are changed forever because of this year...

'Tis the Season...Part One

How in the world is it December 20th?!

I guess it's time to blog a little Christmas, huh?

I really love the idea of a whole "season" of celebrating Christmas. Which means we do this holiday fun all month long. Some days are the smallest of things...anything from working a Christmas puzzle together to writing our Compassion kids a Christmas letter. And, other days are bigger events. In the past, I have had a hard time finding the balance in this season, between celebrating and overextending. This year I have really tried to keep perspective on it all. We've done alot, still. And, actually, I've noticed a "home school advantage" to this season.

I've thought on more than one occasion how much busier we would be if we still had multiple Christmas parties, school projects, teacher gifts, Christmas programs, etc. etc. etc. Not that I don't love all of those things. Because I do! And, not that I'm not busy even without them. Because somehow I still fill my time. But, with some of that load lightened, we have had more time to fill the way we want. I have really loved being able to have slow mornings with my girls, taking this month a little lighter in academics, to spend more time celebrating Jesus, reading Christmas books, making crafts for family gifts {can't show those yet!}...and then stopping early if we feel like it, just because we want Starbucks in the middle of the afternoon.

We've also had other special treats in the middle of the day, like this:

Kendyll was asked to be the "secret reader" at Sophie's preschool, and it was so cute. Kendyll took this role very seriously. She read through all of our Christmas books and chose three she wanted to take. She made little manipulatives that went with the books, and wanted to plan an activity for each book too, until I broke the news to her that she was NOT the teacher for the whole day...just a 10 minute reading session to the class!

When she got there, the children all hid their eyes while she sat down in the reading chair. Sophie was SO surprised and so excited to see that it was Kendyll!

I really love listening to Kendyll read to younger children. She is so animated and always involves them in the story she is reading. She is a natural teacher, and she loves getting to be in that role, just like most oldest children do, I guess. :)

Kendyll also got to be our special guest at the inaugural Touch a Life Art Auction earlier this month! It was a great night, featuring artwork made by the sweet kids in Ghana, and an auction of all kinds of amazing work...photography, beaded jewelry, and art pieces. It all benefitted the work Touch a Life is doing, and it celebrated the year we have all had together. It was fun to be there with {most} all the people we have traveled with over this last year, including Ma Beth from Chicago, Nancy from New York, and the Tidmores from Abilene! This was our team from last summer, posing "Rachel style". We love you, Rach.

Mark also got the opportunity to honor our friend, Charlie, at the auction, for the funds he has raised and the way he has spread the word about child slavery in Ghana! Charlie announced at the auction that he has now raised almost $9,000!!!

And, apparently, the number still continues to grow! WOW!! Isn't it amazing what a nine year old can do?! Thank you Griege Family for your amazing support!

So, since Charlie was going to be honored and attend the auction, Kendyll got to get dressed up and go with us. It was a fun night with our big girl. And, she told me later, that she wants to go to art auctions all the time now. :) Funny girl.

Okay, now for Christmas itself! We began our December with our countdown to Christmas, through our advent activities. Last year, I did a couple of different things, but this year I really wanted to start our Jesse Tree, which counts down to Christmas by tracing the plan that God had for Jesus since the beginning of creation. I love it. I have wanted a Jesse Tree for three years, but never felt up to sewing my own ornaments. And, I never thought ahead enough to order them or make them in advance. This year, I just didn't try to make it fancy or finished with handsewn stitches. And, it has been a great experience for all of us.

The girls made their trees themselves from green paper and manila folders. Every morning, we read the Bible passage, read a devotional from our Advent book, and the girls decide what they feel like represents the story of the day, and then illustrate it on their paper ornament. It has been neat to see what they draw, and because they are the ones actually creating the ornaments, they have remembered details they may not have otherwise. I was planning to make a permanent version for next year, but this method has worked better than I first thought!

We have done the ornaments daily, and have a full advent tree now! We're hoping all 25 ornaments will fit!

It has been a great reminder for me to trace the hand of God through the Bible. Everything He has ever done pointed His people to Jesus. And, nothing He ever allowed or planned was a mistake. That has included some tough things. But, they were all for His ultimate glory. What an amazing gift we have to be able to see His hand through history like that. To see the redemption that came to those who waited. We've talked alot about the faith of these people in the Bible, like Moses and Abraham, and Jacob and Joseph and Isaiah...they were so faithful to believe the promise they were given, although they never got to see the fulfillment of Jesus in their life on earth. What a blessing that we DO get to see Jesus. We DO know the end result firsthand. It's been great to talk more about that in this season.

We have also done many of our usual Christmas activities, like:

Decorating the house and trees (of course!) I love this picture of all the girls working on the tree together. I am just so blessed by these three missy moos.

Everyone was so excited when the Christmas boxes began stacking up in the living room. And, Carlie was especially into the decorating this year. She was so sentimental about everything that we pulled out, and could hardly wait to begin decorating her little room tree. Look at that precious smile when it was finally time. :)

And, can someone please tell this girl to stop growing up so fast? Pictures like this one freak me out. She looks way too old. :)

Abby Kate loved seeing her ornaments from the last couple of years and attached herself to the funniest ones. Recognize this gingerbread, Mrs. Amy?

Chase's ornaments were also a special part of our night once again, and the girls even dedicated our playroom tree as "Chase's Tree" this year. :) As usual, he is a normal part of our family celebrations and the girls got so excited about adding his picture to the tree. It is so sweet to see them love him like that.

Bubbas & Christmas Lights...I don't even know how this tradition started, but we always have our annual stop for chicken, mashed potatoes, and the best biscuits and honey, followed by a quick change to pj's and a covering of fluffy blankets. Then we overstuff ourselves with hot chocolate and Starbucks treats, while driving around the neighborhoods with the windows down, picking our favorite lights. And, it's always a total surprise to the girls which night it will be. :) It's a hit every year.

This year, Abby Kate was loving the "rainbow lights" most of all, Carlie is still a sucker for any kind of nativity scene, and Kendyll...hmmm. She was pretty into the Nutcrackers. :)

Christmas with the California/Colorado family:

This has become a mid-December tradition, and it is always a great weekend. LOTS of eating and talking and catching up. We missed some of the family this year, and hope to have the whole gang back next year! :)

This year was another great gift exchange game. Here is Uncle Joe modeling his first pick: a tote bag from Ghana. Guess who brought that?! Needless to say, he didn't end up with the bag! And, I'm sure he was happy.

The girls have also had some really good Uncle Chris time. They have already gone on a date with him this week for Japanese food, and he has accompanied us to the symphony too (next post!). They always have great entertainment when he's around. Here they are gathered around Uncle C. See the laughs?

I wish I could tell you he was reading some great story to them. No, he's showing them some iphone app where you make yourself look fat. I mean. This CRACKED them up. :) We love some good Uncle Chris humor.

Our Christmas Countdown Box....

This is the most loved Christmas item in our house, I do believe. Mommy has been a countdown slacker and I have not written out every days' activities in the countdown doors. I've been busted many times for this. But, we still did our daily activity (even though it was announced orally, and oftentimes made up on the spot :). The girls hung their daily ornament, and ate the daily Hershey's. The chocolate part of the countdown is the most popular part, and happens before breakfast many days. :)

Baking for neighbors...

We are not the greatest neighbors, I'll admit. We don't see each other that often, and we certainly don't take the time we should to go and visit them all. So, this time of year is always our time to "make the rounds" and share some goodies with those who live closest to us. The girls had SO much fun baking a couple of different cookies, and a snack mix treat...and then Grandma saved us on the rest. We threw in her amazing chocolate candies for the rest of the neighbors' treats. :)

(Oh, and delivering these treats on roller skates was a new part of this tradition...I think it will not be continued next year, however. :)

The homeschool church Christmas party...

This was such a sweet get-together and all three of my girls had so much fun. The older kids had a scavenger hunt, looking for boxes of treasure...they all took it very seriously. :)

Look at this concentration!

The little ones had a sweet story time, and they all learned about "What God wants for Christmas".

We made Christmas cards for the nursing home, decorated Happy Birthday Jesus cupcakes, and ate lunch together.

It is such a sweet group of moms and kids, and I'm SO thankful that this group is right there at church! What a blessing I never expected!

A Live Nativity. I have wanted to do this every year, and it has never worked out. We literally did it on the spur of the moment, late at night, and I am SO glad we did! The girls got to pet Bible-time animals like camels and donkeys and sheep,

and then followed a guide through Bible times to see Jesus being born in Bethlehem. They stopped at the home of Zechariah and Elizabeth,

visited the fields of the shepherds,

Heard from the angel of the Lord (on top of the church's roof!)

saw Mary and Joseph with baby Jesus,

and listened to the wise men share their stories and their gifts.

And...you guessed it....I cried. It was really good. Especially the end about what sweet gifts the Lord offers us, and what we can give in return. As I said last year, the story of Jesus coming as a baby and offering hope for our world is more and more emotional for me as the years pass.

After the nativity story, there were cookies to decorate and face painting! Hello? Everything a girl wants in one place!!

And, the best "bonus" of that night? Running into friends who had big news for us! Their daughter, Riley, had raised money for His Chase by twisting balloons at a craft fair! We were so excited to see her and tell her how thankful we were for this sweet donation! Riley attended VBS this summer and has been thinking of ways to help the kids in Ghana ever since. I love it!! Thank you, Riley for using your gifts to bless these children!

And, on that note of generosity, I want to close "part one" with a BIG thank you. This Christmas, we decided not to send Christmas cards. And, as we sat and printed tax donation receipts and wrote thank you's for new donations we have received, we realized that the Christmas greetings that we usually send, have been beautifully replaced this year by tax benefit letters.

How great it is to see what this year has brought to our family. You are all blessings to us, and to the children we are now called to serve. So many of you have faithfully given to His Chase. Some of you even gave His Chase donations as Christmas gifts to friends and family! And, others have shared BIG amazing ideas for next year with us! And, we are so very thankful for you. You are making our Christmas have a whole new focus that we ever dreamed possible last year. And, we look forward to 2011 with even greater anticipation!